The Hardest Fight Is the One We Don’t Train For
- Garrett Santos
- Jul 30
- 3 min read

You train to shoot, move, and communicate. But what happens when the threat isn’t out there, but it’s in your own head?
Every mission starts with readiness. We run before dawn, drill until it’s second nature, and grind through the pain because our bodies are the original weapon system. But what about the mind? What are we doing to build the mental reflexes that keep us in the fight? Are we drilling in a way that hones our mind’s stress response? Have we given our Service Members a set of immediate action procedures with which they can cognitively respond to crisis?
We don’t wait until we’re shot to put on our gear. So why do we wait until we hit a breaking point to train the brain?
What Is CBt?
Cognitive Behavioral training, CBt, starts with a core truth: our thoughts shape our emotions, which shape our actions; most of that process happens automatically.
The human brain is built to protect us. It runs fast, defaulting to shortcuts, assumptions, distortions, and internal alarms. That wiring keeps us alive in traumatic and combat scenarios. But, it can also pull us into isolation, anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation without us ever realizing it.
CBt equips us to interrupt that loop. It offers a proven framework to identify and challenge those unhelpful automatic thoughts before they spiral. It’s about rewiring how we think in the moments that matter most—on duty, at home, in crisis.
Developed over decades and tested in the toughest settings, CBt trains service members to recognize destructive mental patterns in themselves and others. It builds the skills to course-correct, replacing chaos with clarity, reaction with reflection, and fear with focus.
When CBt is deployed early and often, it saves lives.
The Mind-Body Connection
Your mind controls more than just thoughts; it governs your timing, your perception, and your ability to stay alert when it matters most. When the mind is clear, the body executes. When the mind is fogged, the body falters.
Stress hijacks your system. It delays reaction time. Warps judgment. Shrinks your awareness until the only option you see is the wrong one. Anxiety tightens your chest. Depression drains your energy. These aren’t just mental states, they’re full-body shutdowns that show up in missed cues, mission errors, and emotional withdrawal.
And yet, we’re still told to “tough it out.” Like stress is some immovable force we just have to absorb. But here’s the truth: stress isn’t the threat, it’s our perception of the threat. Stress is relative. It’s a signal, not a sentence. And it can be rewired. CBt gives us the tools to reframe how we see the world around us. It teaches us to challenge the story our brain is telling, interrupt the spiral, and reassert control. When you train your mind, you don’t just manage stress, you outmaneuver it. That’s not weakness. That’s leadership under fire.
CBt builds that capacity. It gives us the tools to operate in high-stakes, anxiety-inducing environments without collapsing and, just as importantly, to come home from those environments and still be present. Present for your spouse. Present for your kids. Present for yourself.
Preventative mental health training sharpens the mental lens so the physical response is clean, fast, and precise. CBt builds the kind of mental endurance and adaptability that teammates count on in a high-stakes situation, when lives are on the line.
Just like riding a bike becomes second nature after enough practice, CBt builds mental skills that stick. It trains us to respond calmly, clearly, and effectively before the crisis hits. Less reactivity, more readiness.
Prevention Is Power
The body follows the mind. If we don’t strengthen the source, we’re building on sand. Preventative training is how we close the gap between knowing something’s wrong and knowing what to do about it.
When we train the mind, we protect the mission. We protect the team. We protect ourselves.
